Well, Saturday went well.. We went to Columbus,Tx and took some pictures in the wild flowers. There was not alot of bluebonnet's this year like we hoped, Most of them where Indian Paint Brushes. But, They where really pretty, even so. We had to get up really early, 5:30 to be exact. Had to get up, get myself dressed, cook the kids breakfast,wake them up, eat, then do all 4 girls hair. Met at his mothers at 8 and was on the road by 9. It was a long day but we took some pretty good pictures and had a picnic before we left.
Today we got Victoria until atleast a week. Her mother is going to Cali, and I am so excited because it gives us alot of time with her and Robbie will be off until Wednesday so he will be able to be here and spend time with her as well.
Yesterday I did some deep cleaning on the house, Got every room nice and cleaned and it's such a relief! I love it when everything is spic and span! Makes me feel like I can breath and function better.
Tyrel and Alicia have gone their separate ways, and it makes me really sad. The whole reason we moved where we moved was because of them. I hate seeing any couple not work out,especially when they have children. But, I understand that sometimes things just wont work.
Me and Robbie have still not found "mutual friends" yet. Me and Robbie are a rare couple I guess lol Because we cant seem to find anyone that likes to spend time with each other as much as we do. We like to go out and do things together and all the friends we have had have always tried to split us apart when we do anything. Not our style, We enjoy being wedged up each other's butts.. lol
Robbie and I might go and try out a new church on Sunday, It's right down the road from us. We both enjoy church, We just have not found one yet that we both like.
Robbie has been doing tattoo's for a few months now, He has started one on my arm that is turning out very pretty. It's a tattoo for my daughter and on the other arm we will be doing one for my son, and then I have an idea for all my stepdaughters as well. Then I am done.. lol
Last night the girls came over and I just realized how little respect all the children show me. I love all my kids, Lord knows I do. But I think it's time I put my foot down and show them that I love them but they wont push me around. Shayleigh has gotten to where she is really brave now and likes to back talk me and argue with me on everything. It's getting out of hand.
Jade, is 10 and so she is going through puberty and hormones and she just likes to act like she is the boss.. Last night I told her to try some clothes on for me and she just refused. I still don't know if she ever did.
Autumn is an Aries, Like me, and her father lol So I guess we all just clash heads because we are all bossy and quick to temper.. She likes to argue with me on everything and roll her eyes and yell at me..
Victoria really hasn't been like the rest latley. She has finally gotten out of the "terrible two's" and really coming into her own. But, she still does like to do whatever I tell her not to... And she has gotten into the habbit of repeating bad words. Alot.. My Husband and I are not saints, We do cuss.. But non of our children have ever repeated us.. They know they are bad words. But Victoria does and I am sure it has something to do with her immature mother teaching her to say things that are bad and laughing it. One time when we picked her up her mother got her to say to Robbie "Where's my money nigga, so I can get my drank on?" It just discusted me that she would find that cute and funny. There is nothing funny about a child talking that way. Just shows you the level her brain is on. So, I don't know how to correct the bad words because I feel she is confused on what is right and what is wrong so I just tell her to not say it again and its a bad word and I should of not said it either.
We made a list of rules. But, Noone is really listening to them.
I guess we need to sit down one night and go over them again. My house is hectic without rules..I hate rules, and I hate discipline.. I rather let kids run wild and just be crazy.. But, in reality, we cant.. We have to shape them into good adults. What are some of yall's rules??
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Today we got Victoria until atleast a week. Her mother is going to Cali, and I am so excited because it gives us alot of time with her and Robbie will be off until Wednesday so he will be able to be here and spend time with her as well.
Yesterday I did some deep cleaning on the house, Got every room nice and cleaned and it's such a relief! I love it when everything is spic and span! Makes me feel like I can breath and function better.
Tyrel and Alicia have gone their separate ways, and it makes me really sad. The whole reason we moved where we moved was because of them. I hate seeing any couple not work out,especially when they have children. But, I understand that sometimes things just wont work.
Me and Robbie have still not found "mutual friends" yet. Me and Robbie are a rare couple I guess lol Because we cant seem to find anyone that likes to spend time with each other as much as we do. We like to go out and do things together and all the friends we have had have always tried to split us apart when we do anything. Not our style, We enjoy being wedged up each other's butts.. lol
Robbie and I might go and try out a new church on Sunday, It's right down the road from us. We both enjoy church, We just have not found one yet that we both like.
Robbie has been doing tattoo's for a few months now, He has started one on my arm that is turning out very pretty. It's a tattoo for my daughter and on the other arm we will be doing one for my son, and then I have an idea for all my stepdaughters as well. Then I am done.. lol
Last night the girls came over and I just realized how little respect all the children show me. I love all my kids, Lord knows I do. But I think it's time I put my foot down and show them that I love them but they wont push me around. Shayleigh has gotten to where she is really brave now and likes to back talk me and argue with me on everything. It's getting out of hand.
Jade, is 10 and so she is going through puberty and hormones and she just likes to act like she is the boss.. Last night I told her to try some clothes on for me and she just refused. I still don't know if she ever did.
Autumn is an Aries, Like me, and her father lol So I guess we all just clash heads because we are all bossy and quick to temper.. She likes to argue with me on everything and roll her eyes and yell at me..
Victoria really hasn't been like the rest latley. She has finally gotten out of the "terrible two's" and really coming into her own. But, she still does like to do whatever I tell her not to... And she has gotten into the habbit of repeating bad words. Alot.. My Husband and I are not saints, We do cuss.. But non of our children have ever repeated us.. They know they are bad words. But Victoria does and I am sure it has something to do with her immature mother teaching her to say things that are bad and laughing it. One time when we picked her up her mother got her to say to Robbie "Where's my money nigga, so I can get my drank on?" It just discusted me that she would find that cute and funny. There is nothing funny about a child talking that way. Just shows you the level her brain is on. So, I don't know how to correct the bad words because I feel she is confused on what is right and what is wrong so I just tell her to not say it again and its a bad word and I should of not said it either.
We made a list of rules. But, Noone is really listening to them.
I guess we need to sit down one night and go over them again. My house is hectic without rules..I hate rules, and I hate discipline.. I rather let kids run wild and just be crazy.. But, in reality, we cant.. We have to shape them into good adults. What are some of yall's rules??
♥
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O My goodness.... those photos are beyond beautiful... you did an amazing job : ) your children are sooooo precious. Im glad it all worked out : ) as for the rules... blah... i am so not a good enforcer... but i agree it comes to a point where it has to be done... because i think we need to teach them some boundaries... they'll need them later in life... and besides... we might just get to enjoy the benefits too if we could just get them to comply... things we are focusing on in my house right now... we don't say hate... since my daughter likes to throw that one around... and we clean up after ourselves... that one probablly is the most painful to enforce... its amazing how a child suddenly developes a 'hurt' hand when its time to clean up... lol
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